I made dinner, after I got home, when I was tired. I didn’t order out. I didn’t get something from the deli counter at the fancy place near the subway. Okay, the ravioli were from the freezer, but I cooked them. And I cooked the mushrooms. And it all came out nicely.
I was feeling really low-energy when i got home, but I kept my focus, and went through the motions. And ended up with FOOD!
Amazing
My mom wrote me back about the hair…
when I was on the prednisone for 2 yrs, my favorite barrette , that I had had since college, fell out of my hair in the ocean in Hawaii. That’s when I knew I wasn’t imagining that there was a considerable change. Didn’t get it all back, but most. Drugs play alot of hardball on your body. Fortunately, you have some to spare, in the hair dept, and it is not apparent to the familiar eye.
Dad ran into Dr U last week, and he said all the side effects will be gone when you are done with the treatment. That is something to look forward to.
that, and your Grandpa Morrie did not loose his hair, nor did his brother Saul
I remember when she lost that barrette. I didn’t understand what the big deal was then. I get it now.
This is Feenix getting a haircut. One of my parents two dogs.
i got haircut too
my hair kept falling out. and getting thinner and thinner. and loosing body.
six months ago i started out with about two inches of pony tail that was a bit over 1 inch thick. before this hair cut (six months later) i had about 2.5 inches of pony tail that started out at 1/2 inch, in withered to strands by the end. normally, after 6 months, i would have a big bushy bunny tail back there, with four inches curling back on itself in a pom-pom bun.
today marisa noticed that i have half as much armpit hair as i did before. or maybe less. we couldn’t decide whether my chest or other body hair had dropped too. i did notice a funny hairless patch on my belly, right near one of my early favorite sites of injection, which i have since had to abandon because it turned red (and still is red), and got scaly for a while.
Interferon is not supposed to cause your hair to fall out the way that conventional Chemo does. The traditional chemo patient story is that one day, after the second or third treatment, all their hair on their entire body falls off in one day.
I had relatively little hair loss up until month two or three, when I started to notice excessive amounts of hair in the drain… *when I didn’t wash my hair!*
I also notice that if i undo a hair band, there is maybe 5x the amount of hair that would normally be there.
And I have noticed I can see my scalp. My hair is *thinning* which is what IFN is known to do.
I told my dad, and he jokingly reminded me that this was about when he started to go bald. But we have different mother’s fathers, and my mother’s father didn’t go bald (to my knowledge), so I have hope.
Things that it is important for me to remember I have overcome:
Things that are happening that I am managing to get through:
Things I seem to have avoided entirely:
Goals:
Nothing is easy, and there is no free lunch with this stuff.
The Atarax (which I am taking at a lower dose, with greater frequency), *is* helping with the Dysesthesia attacks. Before I would get at least one attack that was at least a level 7 or 8 on a scale of 1 to 10, and several attacks in the 2 to 5 range. The drugs have pulled that top threshold down to a once a day level 4 or maybe level 5 attack, with several attacks that are in the 1-3 range. These smaller attacks I can manage with breathing, self-hypnosis, and temperature (ice and just walking outside.)
So… the side effects. I’m irritable, I’m having nightmares, and I have completely lost my libido. Like “whoosh” gone. It took me a sec to realize that is what had happened. But yes, that is what had happened. You win some, you loose some.
I told my therapist about it, and she said that she was frankly amazed that I managed to continue to have sex through this whole thing at all. Her comment was that between the hormonal shifts, and the physical falling apart, someone not as strong or vital or depression resistant would not have even made it this far.
The bowl I just broke. $100 including shipping.
My hands are so beat up with lesions and cuts, and my skin is so thin and dry, I decided to use gloves to wash the dishes. It seemed prudent and responsible.
The first dish flew out of my hands, and crashed all over the floor. It was one of the big cereal bowls from my set. The set I grew up with. I had to concentrate really hard to think "it is just an object. do not let this make you fall apart. do not cry."
This is the second time today I had to do that. I had the same feeling, and response when I cut my finger, right under the fingernail, on the edge of a cardboard box. Cardboard cuts me! That’s how thin my skin is.
O gave me a new pill organizer. She actually gave me several, Three of which I am using, one of which I am declaring an artwork entitled "Sol Lewitt’s Pillbox."
It is verging on elaborate, but it works. I haven’t forgotten my drugs since I started using it two weeks ago.
HT wants me to post that I sat down in a chair when I was in LA, and I remarked that “I just felt my titties jiggle.”
Oh, the way the body changes in illness.